相愛,就要慢慢地放開自己
Give - definition of give by The Free Dictionary因為愛,人以為可以走出現實生活,跟一個可以絕對信任,投入和付出的人在一起,童話一樣美好和不現實。但人在愛里不夠清醒,盲目和逃避面對自己應處理的問題,結果越愛越累越矛盾,原來的信任變成猜疑,投入變成焦慮,付出變成犧牲,你愛得離自己越來越遠,最終失去自己。 問題在哪?是對方變成另一個人,抑或你一開始便沒give (gĭv) v. gave (gāv), giv·en (gĭv′ən), giv·ing, gives v.tr. 1. To make a present of: We gave her flowers for her birthday. 2. To place in the hands of; pass: Give me the scissors. 3. a. To deliver in exchange or recompense; pay: gave five dollars for ...
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